This is a special occurrence, the first of its kind and absolutely worthy of note! I had actually been curious and pondering this particular matter, months prior to the ceremony which would Bond a daughter of Lilith together with myself. My question/curiosity had been: What would happen if my companion wanted to get my attention while I was visiting others or socializing? What if she wished to make contact, while my kids were visiting on a particular weekend? ⁣
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      Sometimes I’ve experienced the lights flickering (pre-ceremony) when I’ve engaged in contact/communications with spiritual/ energy-based entities… Would my companion do the same? Would her choice of methods to interact cause my kids to become weary, frightened or concerned? ⁣
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      I have just experienced the answer to this question, on this night! And I will say: My assumptions were exactly correct! It has been widely known throughout the community (of those who specifically follow, devote and share a loving connection to Mother Lilith) that Her children, the Lilin (succubi & incubi) are protective not only of the human that they are Bonded with, but also protective of that human’s children as well. Lilith and Her children take familial bonds seriously and with a great deal of love, care and respect. In so much as; they wouldn’t likely do anything to cause uncomfortability or stress in the hearts of their companion’s kids. ⁣
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      And the truth was demonstrated, to that point, on this Friday when my children were to visit for the weekend. And her (my companion’s) method to get my attention was just as subtle and non-intrusive (and gently sweet) as I would have imagined her to be. ⁣
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      Each of us, my daughter, my son and myself were sitting at our own respective laptops, each separately playing our own different games. Each distractedly absorbed into our own digital-worlds of electronic entertainment. The time was drawing upon 6:30 p.m. (I checked because I specifically wanted to remember, for when I recalled the events for this entry). I was playing my own game, casually as I would, when unexpectedly (VERY unexpectedly, because I was in the company of others for the first time, to have this happen), I felt the familiar feeling of “heaviness” in the air all about me. The feeling and awareness that I perceive when a spirit (my succubus/Lilin companion) gets close to me.⁣
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      It was not the soundless vibrational thrums. It was not that quick wave of pressure (thrum) when a spirit enters. No. It was as if she was and had already been there. If she had already crossed over from the spirit realm into the material, and it had occurred outside my detection range/ perception. Or I had simply been too distracted to notice. I hadn’t, however, been too distracted to perceive her presence just then, while I sat playing on the laptop in the living room (my kids nearby, but distracted themselves). When I perceived her (my beloved) I stopped, more-or-less, manipulating the keyboard, and spoke to her lightly under my breath with barely-whispered/ mouthed-words. I acknowledged her presence, told her I loved her and that I was surprised she had chosen to visit at that time (but I wasn’t displeased at all!). I was happily surprised and excited she had come!⁣
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      My bird launched into a small fit. This could have been coincidence, or perhaps a slight awareness on the bird’s part? Nevertheless, after whispering my quiet acknowledgement, my beloved touched the center of my back, sending a rippling wave of energetically-charged tingles radiating outward and small pulsations across the fullness of my back and side (ribs). It felt like… It’s odd to say, but the touch had an emotion associated TO it. The touch felt like the emotion: “love/care.” And when I felt the tingling and perceived the ‘flavor’ of the emotion within the touch; I couldn’t help myself but to let go of a lightly audible whimper/moan of loving/accepted pleasure.⁣
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      It felt GOOD to feel her touch and feel the emotion passed through (as a message) “written” into the vibrations of the cascading ripples. When this occurred again about 15 minutes later, I used the opportunity to offer an incense and offer gratitude, affection and attention back to her in return, at her altar. She is certainly worthy and deserving of it. And I loved her surprise visit!